Monday, November 29, 2010
forty miles from atlanta, this is nowhere
On Friday, I wrote about my simple formula for what constitutes YA.
Y (Emotionally/Psychologically Immature) + A (Sexually Mature) = Young Adult
And this is also why I hate YA. Because these limited qualifying characteristics that I can come up with to unify the genre also split it apart; make it so broad that to give it a name is kind of pointless. You know there are people who definitely fit into the Y category (characters in books, and real ones) who may be pushing 30 years old, and we know that the A part kicks in around 14 or so.
Which speaks to my frustration about the whole genre-classification.
Oh, I'm not trying to "convert" anyone to this type of thinking, and please don't tell me it's all about location, location, location on the shelves of a bookstore.
None of that matters very much to me.
Oddly to me, some so-called "YA" books entertain us with remarkably mature (emotionally and psychologically) protagonists who happen to be in their teens (there are dozens of titles that come to mind -- admit it, you can name some, too), although they apparently have nothing going on in their southern provinces, if you know what I mean.
So here's the deal: there is sex in The Marbury Lens, as there is also sex in my first two novels, Ghost Medicine and In the Path of Falling Objects. You can't really help it if you're writing YA, especially with male protagonists, because sex is such a hugely powerful motivator and tormentor of adolescent male souls.
Sorry, but that's the truth.
I suppose that one day I will build a literary universe that is sexless, but one day, I also plan on writing an MG novel, just for the hell of it, and because I think it would be fun. And really really easy, too. [The following statement was only expressed to piss off my friends who write MG.]
And the thing is, too, the fact that there is sex in my books does piss some people off.
And all of them are grownups.
They get all angsty and nervous when they have to consider such unthinkable things as sexual pressure, curiosity, confusion, and identity in teens.
Teen readers don't care about it. They know what's going on. It's their parents (or frequently, adults who don't even have kids) who have a hard time confronting such issues.
Oh, and don't worry, I have been told things like, We all know about this stuff, so you don't need to put it in any books.
Well. Yes I do. Because most parents won't talk about "this stuff," not among each other, and definitely not to their kids. In fact, I'm pretty confident that the grownups who don't have any hangups talking to kids about sex, sexual pressure, curiosity, confusion, and sexual identity probably also don't have any problem with those issues appearing in books, either.
Just my guess.
I could be wrong.
And besides, the sexual "ideas" that exist as kinds of riptides beneath the currents of the characters' motivations in my three (and future) novels are expressed in a pretty tame (but definitely present) manner.
I know, for some people, "tame" means you shouldn't talk about it.
At all.
Still, unless you're talking about a species of Young Adult that I've never encountered, sex is going to be something that's always present, and sometimes very powerful, in their universe.
Now go talk to your kids.
And try listening, too.
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7 comments:
Mountain Goats. When are you coming to Georgia, Andrew?
So, I have to agree with you. Adults DO NOT talk with their children openly about sex. (or anything that has to do with the subject.) Most teens learn by books, friends, movies, etc.
I also agree that more parents NEED to speak to their kids about such matters. Be open. Let them ask questions. (I mean sheesh, I would rather my daughter come to me and ask questions that go to a friend and get false information. OR WORSE!)
I am a parent. I do have the right to speak up. I don't think anything is wrong with your book(s).
Seriously, there are kids younger than my 11 year old daughter reading a certain vampire series.
What the fuck?
AND a very popular dystopian trilogy.
In my opinion, (most) parents do not pre-read or pay any attention to what their children are reading. They have no clue.
I say, get a clue.
Stop worrying about books that 'you' are uncomfortable with. Get over it. There are worse out there. Sexuality is normal. Who cares if Andrew writes about teen boys who wanna have sex. You wanted to. So did I.
If you're lucky your child is at least the age of 16 when thinking about it, especially if you don't talk to him or her about such things.
Ahhh. Maybe I shouldn't comment. My opinion means nothing. Clueless parents will still ignore the obvious and continue to bitch and complain about what 'they' think is right.
These people are just looking for someone to blame.
'Hey guys, guess what?! Andrew Smith is not that person.
Oooh. I like what you have to say, Lady Reader.
And I like the Mountain Goats, too.
And, this morning, when I posted this blog, it was 18 degrees (Fahrenheit, for my non-US friends, which makes it below zero on the scale that makes more sense) at my house.
If it's warmer than that in Georgia, I'm due for a southern swing.
People don't want to talk to their kids about sex because then they might have to tell them the truth.
Yes, little Johnny, sex is fun. Amazingly fun. So much fun that many men (and thankfully many women) end up devoting much of their lives to getting more of it.
Is it better with love? Um. . . sure. And Ben and Jerry's chocolate is better than Breyer's but you know what? The Breyer's is still pretty damn good, so slap on a rubber and go for it!
Should you try and tap that cheerleader? Hell yes. I mean, look at her! If I was your age that's what I'd be doing.
So you either tell them the truth, or you tell them some version of the truth which includes a number of lies and a lot of carefully shaded narrative loaded up with the kind of moral questions and nuances and subtleties you never spent 8 seconds thinking about when you were 15.
People don't tell the truth because it makes them uncomfortable and society wouldn't approve.
When my son is 40 I'll be able to share the many questions he has already asked me about sex and other things but I would never embarrass him now.
Andrew, you have to pass through Texas before you go to Georgia. It was 65 this am and its 81 now. No Mountain Goats in Spring but we have deer and wild hogs.
Connie
(Still laughing at Michael's comment)
Connie, I have a feeling you wouldn't embarrass your son at all. And I do need to get through the south this go-round for the book promotion.
Andrew, I may not embarrass him but it would embarrass me repeating it now. lol Each question or comment from him now is always new and unexpected but at least he talks/ask me and not his friends.
And I'm still snort laughing from Michael's comment!
Connie
I think I know why you put 40 miles outside Atlanta in the title. Because I live about 40 miles outside Atlanta, and when it comes to ignorance, this is the center of the universe.
But if you ever do come here, dinner's on me. Or a beer. Or a Chai Latte. Or whatever the Hipsters are drinking these days. PBR?
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